Letting Go of Perfect: Learning to Live the Good-Enough Life

  When Control Becomes a Full-Time Job In my last post, The Not-Pinterest-Perfect Halloween , we talked about finding ways to enjoy the holiday without chasing picture-perfect standards. That idea has been growing quietly in my mind for a while now, long before I really recognized the bigger picture of what it meant. It’s not just about pumpkins or front porches, it’s been showing up in the smaller, quieter corners of everyday life. We tell ourselves this is the week the color-coded planner will stick. We spend so much of our time trying to get life right. The right morning rhythm, the right tone when we parent, the right system for keeping it all running. We tweak and plan until “right” starts to feel like the only thing that counts. At some point, without even noticing, we start equating order with peace. I used to believe that if I could just get the structure right, everything else would follow. If the house was clean, I could think straight. If the plan was detailed and th...

5 Kitchen Tools That Make Family Meals Faster and Simpler

Outdoor family dinner spread with salmon, salads, and bread


Every once in a while, the stars align and dinner actually comes together without drama. This week was one of those rare wins — meals were prepped, the kids ate (mostly) without complaining, and I didn’t find myself panic-boiling pasta at 6:30. I know it won’t always be this smooth (next week will probably be chaos again), but I’ll happily take the small victory.

What I’ve learned is that no matter what the week looks like — organized or off the rails — having a few reliable tools in the kitchen makes a huge difference. They don’t magically make life perfect, but they do make feeding a family faster, simpler, and a little less stressful.


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1. Slow Cooker (a.k.a. My Weeknight Lifesaver)

There are days when dinner time sneaks up on me, and the thought of standing at the stove while three kids circle the kitchen like hungry sharks is… not happening. That’s when the slow cooker earns its spot — because everything went in earlier, I pressed a button, and forgot about it until now. Dinner is ready before the chaos hits, and I don’t have to scramble.

Slow cooker beef stew with carrots and potatoes in a crockpot

For a family of five, size matters. A tiny 4-quart model might handle chili for two, but it’s not enough when you’re feeding a crowd. Look for a 7–8 quart slow cooker — it can hold a full roast, a whole chicken, or enough stew to last through dinner and maybe a leftover lunch.

Here’s how I break it down:

  • The one I use now: A Hamilton Beach 8 qt Slow Cooker. Big, dependable, and doesn’t have a million buttons to figure out at 7 a.m. when I’m trying to throw something in before school runs. You can grab it here.

  • The one I’ll use someday: A Ninja PossibleCooker PRO. It’s still a slow cooker at heart, but it also sears, sautés, and even goes in the oven — fewer dishes, more flexibility. You can see it here.

And about cleanup — I’ll be real, it’s the worst part. That’s why I keep slow cooker liners in the cupboard. They’re not a must-have, but when I know the meal is going to stick (looking at you, cheesy casseroles), I line the pot, cook, and toss the liner. For soups and chilis, I skip them. Optional, but they make life easier.

Bottom line: a slow cooker is like a safety net. Dinner cooks while you’re doing school pick-ups or tackling laundry, and you can actually sit down to a hot meal without scrambling.


2. Sheet Pans

Sheet pan dinners are one of my go-to tricks: minimal prep, minimal cleanup, and everything comes out of the oven at once. Chop, toss with oil and seasoning, spread it out, and let the oven do the work while you wrangle kids or deal with the 47 other things happening at 5 p.m.

But here’s what nobody tells you about sheet pan dinners for a family of five: if you pile everything onto one pan, you don’t get crispy roasted veggies and juicy chicken. You get soggy broccoli, pale potatoes, and meat that cooks unevenly.

Sheet pan dinners with chicken, salmon, sausage, and roasted vegetables

The secret is space. Food needs room to roast instead of steam. I was thrilled when I found a 16×22 sheet pan — it’s bigger than the standard 18×13 but still fits most ovens. That extra surface area means dinner actually feeds everyone. You can find it here.

Even better? I keep two big pans. One is for dinner, and the other is for my “cook once, eat twice” trick. Roast chicken, peppers, and onions on one pan for fajitas tonight. On the second, load extra chicken and veggies with just salt, pepper, and garlic. The next day, those “extras” turn into quick lunches or even another dinner — wraps, grain bowls, quesadillas, you name it. Same oven, same cleanup, double the meals. (I talk more about this in my post on time-saving family meal hacks.)

If your oven is smaller or you just want flexibility, a good half-sheet (18×13) is still worth having. It won’t fit a full family dinner, but it’s perfect for sides, smaller batches, or kid lunches. I like having both: big ones for family meals and “eat twice” hacks, smaller ones for everything else. You can check out a half sheet here.

Give your food room, and you’ll get golden, crispy results that actually stretch into tomorrow.


3. Meal Prep Containers

I have a love-hate relationship with containers. Love them when they’re stacked neatly in the fridge with tomorrow’s lunch ready to go. Hate them when the lids have mysteriously vanished into the void (seriously, where do they go?).

Over the years, I’ve realized one style doesn’t fit all — so I keep a few types on hand:

    Glass and plastic meal prep containers with fresh vegetables
  • Stay-Home Containers (Glass, Durable, Leakproof): These are the ones I trust for soups, sauces, and meals that need reheating. Glass doesn’t stain, it’s oven/microwave/dishwasher safe, and the lids actually stay shut. But they don’t leave the house — they’re my “adult” containers. You can see my go-to set here.

  • Kid-Friendly, “Won’t Cry If They Don’t Come Back” Containers: I once sent my kids to school with $25 bento boxes. They disappeared in about two weeks. Lesson learned. Now I send them with lightweight, inexpensive containers. If they don’t make it back, I don’t stress. You can grab a set here (8 oz - good for snacks) or here (16 oz - good for a main like pasta or chicken legs).

  • The “Fridge Heroes” (Produce Storage): This one saves my sanity. I use long, narrow containers with a little screen at the bottom — perfect for berries, grapes, or cut veggies. They stack neatly front-to-back in the fridge, which means I can actually see what we have. No more discovering a bag of melted spinach at the back, or buying strawberries only to realize there was already a box hiding. Having things lined up saves space and keeps snacks grab-and-go ready. You can check out a set here.

Hack I swear by: when I make a sheet pan dinner or slow cooker meal, I pack a container or two before serving. Otherwise, my kids (and husband) eat it all in one sitting, and tomorrow-me has no lunch.


4. A Sharp Chef’s Knife

I used to think adulthood meant mortgages and meal planning. Turns out, it’s getting way too excited over a knife. One slice through an onion without swearing, and suddenly I felt like I had my life together.

If there’s one kitchen tool that changes everything, it’s a sharp, reliable chef’s knife. You can get by with just this one — chopping veggies, slicing meat, cutting through tough squash, even mincing herbs if you’re patient.

Sharp chef’s knife on cutting board with herbs and sliced cucumber
For years, I used dull, cheap knives and thought that’s just what cooking felt like — messy tomato slices, endless sawing at onions, frustration with sweet potatoes. Then I finally splurged on a good chef’s knife, and it was like flipping a switch. Cooking was faster, food looked better, and I wasn’t worried about slipping and cutting myself (dull knives are actually more dangerous).

If you only invest in one kitchen tool, make it this. You can grab the one I use here.

Side Note: Over time, I’ve picked up a couple extras — a small serrated tomato knife, a paring knife, and a bread knife. They’re nice to have, but I didn’t start with them. The chef’s knife is the real workhorse.


5. Instant Read Thermometer

Nothing saves time like not having to second-guess dinner. A thermometer takes the guesswork out: no cutting into chicken mid-meal, no dry steak from overcooking “just to be safe.” You stick it in, see the number, and know if you’re good to go.

These days, my Café oven has a built-in probe, which is amazing — but before that, I relied on a handheld thermometer, and it completely changed how I cooked.

Instant read thermometer checking meat for safe temperature

Here are two that fit real life:

  • The Simple Saver: A budget-friendly instant-read thermometer. Open the oven or BBQ, stick it in, get your reading, done. You can see it here.

  • The Tech Upgrade: A leave-in probe thermometer that connects to your phone. Put it in the meat, close the oven or BBQ, and the app tracks the temp in real time. Perfect for roasts or turkey when you’ve got a million other things going on. You can check it out here.

Even the simple one makes a difference. Once you try it, you won’t want to go back to guessing.


Family gathered around dinner table with baked pasta casserole

Dinner doesn’t have to be a juggling act of dirty pans, guesswork, and stress. A few right tools — the big sheet pan (or two), a dependable slow cooker, leak-proof containers, that one great knife, and a trustworthy thermometer — really can tip the balance between chaos and “wow, that was smooth.”

You don’t need to buy it all at once (I didn’t). For me, it’s been a slow build: adding one thing here, upgrading another later, and figuring out what actually earns its spot in my kitchen.

If you want even more shortcuts that work in real life, check out my post on [time-saving family meal hacks → insert link]. And if you’d rather skip the setup and just use done-for-you systems, take a peek at my printables shop.

Here’s to more nights where dinner feels like a small win — because those really do add up.


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